What is Best: Wild or Romantic Sex? Find Out What Works for You!

It is now seen as the hot meeting of physical and emotional needs. As more couples try out different types of sexual activity, the question of whether one method is better than the other is often raised. Now that you have this piece, you can answer those questions.

Wild sex

Wild sex is all about intense thrusts, vocal joys, and energy that is so hot it could set the air on fire. It seems that more and more couples are turning to power and violence to spice up their lovemaking. This method is so tempting because it's so exciting to do. As of late, sex toys, mutual masturbation, and long periods of foreplay have become very popular.


Things that used to be banned in the bedroom quickly make their way there. Even though wild sex has been wrongly linked to one-night stands, it has also been used by couples in long-term relationships to reach new levels of pleasure. People usually try to get sexually aroused on the spot, but sometimes planning to be down and dirty works just as well. 

Enter her from behind, moving slowly at first and then faster as you get closer if she lets you grab her hair. The wicked treatment that happens in wild sex is enough to make sex exciting.

Would you like to try out BDSM? Put your woman in handcuffs and tie her to the bed. Then, lightly whip, spank, and probe her genitalia. 

Then, when she begs for more, grab her hard and let your bodies do the rest. Get into a beat on your own, and only stop pushing when you want to tease her. Wild sex doesn't have to happen only in the bedroom. If you have a wild mind and a lot of desire, you can play sexual games anywhere.

Having sex in public will then be the most exciting thing ever. How "wild" something is depends on how the couple is feeling and how much they want it. Wild sex is often done without thinking, which can hurt your partner. So, ensuring your partner is okay with trying new things is essential.

Who wants sex wilder?

Because most people think that women like slow sex more, it made sense that men would want "fast sex" more often, we were surprised when women said they liked a faster pace more than men did.

About half of both men and women (50.2% each) said they would like an equal amount of fast and slow pace. However, more women (31.7%) chose a rapid pace "most or all of the time" than men (20%), who didn't want it that fast nearly as often.

But the desire for this faster carnality wasn't just based on gender. The most important thing that determined the speed of sex people wanted was their age. People under 35 were twice as likely as people over 35 to get excited about faster sex.

Romantic sex

Romantic sex is the more private and softer way to do things. This is more about the mental connection than the physical violence. For this, making love, passionate kissing, slow but deep thrusts, and loving eye contact are what get the mood going. When you have this kind of sex, you feel close and like you belong. Make the mood beautiful. Put out some scented candles. Don't hold back when you kiss.


Romantic sex is a common way for women who are in serious relationships to treat their partners. The main parts are soft touches, oral sex, strong pre-sex and long sexual encounters. Bite her neck gently and push her down slowly and deeply. Hold her arms up above her head and pin them down. She will enjoy how you feel when you give up, and you will keep coming back for more.

Ultimately, the strength of one's desire will be able to pick the best way to do things independently. That's all you need to do. Your body will take care of the rest. Enjoy yourself! 

Who wants to have sex more slowly?

Men and people over 35 wanted things to move more slowly, but relationship happiness was what stood out about the slow-sex people. People who wished to have slower sex also said they were unhappy in their relationship. Our surprise finding was significant, but we don't know how to explain it yet. We need to do more study to figure out what this finding means.

Which is better? Sex for love or sex for fun!

There's no one "right" way to have sex. There was no link between the speed of sex and physical happiness. A mix of fast and intense and slow and relaxed is what most people want. When we enjoy fast or slow, it will depend on our mood, level of excitement, or what our partner wants.

That said, most of us know what speed excites us or makes us finish.

Problems only happen when two people don't like the same speed. In the end, they stopped having sex because they thought the other person wasn't the right person for them sexually.

Pace is important for sex in many ways. Not only to "slow down." Each person is different, and that difference should be valued and honored. Some couples get stuck in their differences, and if they don't talk about them or try to work things out, they might make each other unhappy without meaning to.

Pretty much everyone has their tastes and moods. Some people like wild sex. They will also enjoy loving sex after a while or if they feel like it. So the choice is all yours!

Conclusion

In the end, there’s no right answer, wild or romantic sex—it’s all about you. Wild sex is exciting, spontaneous and intense, romantic sex is intimate, emotional and tender. Both have their pros, and it’s all about your mood, desires and what you and your partner are in the mood for at that moment. A healthy sex life is all about variety, where you can have the best of both worlds. Communication and mutual understanding is key, so both partners feel satisfied and fulfilled. Whatever it is, wild or romantic, the best sex is the sex that brings you and your partner closer.